No, I never had a JW girlfriend because I'm pretty sure I could have either converted her or, at the least, got her to leave the JW faith.
But you guys really need to lighten up. We have none of the cultish aspects of the JWs. (Cofty hates any religion, so he's not a good source for anything having to do theology. He lacks...substance. He's quick to a few barbs, then vanishes, and is kind of like Eris (Discord) in Greek mythology. At the wedding of Peleus and Thetis, she threw in a golden apple and...poof, gone.) We LDS have world class geologists, archaeologists, anthropologists, professors of ancient scripture, historians -- all educated people you won't find in JW circles. We also interact with Islamic, Jewish and other Christian faiths that JWs don't do. An really, the only ones who call us a "cult" are the evangelicals and atheists, and they're going to Hell anyway (JUST KIDDING!).
There are both problems and evidences in the Book of Mormon and if anyone wants to discuss these and other issues, I'll be happy to address them via private messages if you wish. But this "cult" thing is ridiculous. I'm FREE to think like I want, believe what I want, read what I want, associate with whom I want, and we don't shun anyone. And our meetings are as boring as anyone else's (but I like the courses). So what's with the cult? (And c'mon, even first century Christianity was a cult, so what's the difference?)
So it's just a case of name calling. If someone has any actual issues they want addressed, drop me a line. But please don't copy and paste from anti-Mormon sites. I've seen it all.